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Words - a world of possibility
A few words can mean so much. I recieved a much needed apology tonight from someone. It meant TONS.

Just needed to share that, thought it might be valuable to the world. It felt really good to my life. Validated me in parts of myself.

Thanks, though you'll probably never read this.

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saizai From: saizai Date: January 19th, 2002 10:26 am (UTC) (Link)
Care to detail?
moowazz From: moowazz Date: January 19th, 2002 02:01 pm (UTC) (Link)

In short, someone I dated (we were together 3 years) apologized for many things that happened. When someone you are close to hurts you and doesn't own up or apologize, it leaves you wondering why. Why did they feel the need to do those things, and sometimes blame it on you or tell you that you're wrong.

When I got out of the relationship I knew there were some things I was right about, but as much as you may know this, there is just another dimension when that person realizes it also and acknowledges it. It means they really cared.

I'm not sure if that answers anything, but if not I'll IM you with more details, I don't want to put too much in here because the result rather than the specifics are what's important in this situation.

shadow_dancer From: shadow_dancer Date: January 20th, 2002 10:50 am (UTC) (Link)
I'm happy for you :)

Unfortunately for me, when I apologized to someone for having upset him, all he did was yell at me :( Told me to "Stop writing me damned letters, no more letters..." and on and on he went... and when I tried to apoligize to him then and there in person, all he told me was to shut up... don't talk to him, don't look at him, blah blah blah... sigh...

Anyway, I'm so happy yours worked out good :)
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