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update on ramblings - a world of possibility
update on ramblings

so . . .

my old friend contacted me

apparently (somehow I kinda felt it would be my fault, lol) I gave him the wrong cell number and he talked with a "pleasant" yet "creepy" lady. I messed up one number (well it could been him, but either way - the number was wrong).

So . . . when I got an e-mail explaining this I replied, and within the reply noted I had a boy (not baby boy - no kids here, far from ready). Hopefully he will be the person I felt he was when I met him - a good, kindhearted person who enjoys life - and still want a friendship. For all I know, he's like me when it comes to friends. I get so engrossed in school and I'm really bad at making plans - I am great at keeping plans, but bad at initiating them - unless it is a special or rare time, cause once in a while I do see friends.

I think all my rambling, besides my odd past (I had a friend once tell me, women can be "just friends" with men, but men always want to sleep with their "just friends" women and I have since then been slightly overly aware of attitudes towards me, but also hopeful that this person wasn't entirely correct as men seem to have feelings too, want people around, want to feel "loved" -not in the mushy gooey sense, but in the respected, cared for sense- anyhow I ramble again), was a result of too much free time and not enough doing things to fill it.

I am going to

  • be patient with boy (my boy

  • try to find things outside of my apartment to do with my time

  • get my senior work done!!! - well work on it (that's another story, lol

  • attempt to be in the 'now', appreciate where I am and what I have ( I was doing fairly well at this for a while

  • continue posting pictures for my entries - I enjoy that

  • as my dad says I don't haveto, I getto.

    I hope all be well :)~
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saint_monkey From: saint_monkey Date: November 15th, 2005 04:32 pm (UTC) (Link)
I had a friend once tell me, women can be "just friends" with men, but men always want to sleep with their "just friends" women

Pretty much a true statement. You been talkin to low_key to get that info? Sounds like something he'd say.

The movie When Harry Met Sally outed this most ultimate secret of all men, and every man that I knew that watched it looked at the screen with horror when Billy Crystal's character uttered those words so nonchalantly. But the funniest part is that almost every woman I've ever met refuses to believe this generalization of at least one man.

In any case, I'll add an addendum. If you have a fellow, there are lots of perfectly decent men that may be capable of a platonic relationship with you for the rest of your life, especially if they are an old friend and are comfortable with you. Just don't expect them not to make a move should your situation change.
moowazz From: moowazz Date: November 15th, 2005 06:32 pm (UTC) (Link)

yah yah

completely understood :)

and I don't think that bothers me - because the best (how cliche but . . ) the best relationships come from friendship

and I guess I don't mind thinking that all men want that, only I hope that's not all they want - if that makes an inkling of sense :)
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