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Just a very long babbling - a world of possibility
Just a very long babbling

-need vs want
-wanting what you can't have
-wanting based on physical
-wanting based on emotional
-relationships are such a small part of life, a throughline, but not life itself

"My theory, guys who are physically attractive (and see this as their outstanding feature/quality) look for a physically attractive woman. Their interest is sparked by the physical because this is what they know."
not exact words, but close enough.
If this is wrong, please do correct me (someone else said the idea, though I'm not sure I got it completely correct)

Too many guys only know how to be attracted physically, with emotional attachment coming later. Too few know how to develop both at the same time, or even just emotional/mental connection first.

People are too easily swayed by physical.
-girl flirts
-girls attention is drawn to another attractive male
-girl then flirts with this male
-process repeats itself
-similar pattern with male
-difference, usually (correct me if I'm wrong) guy wants down girls pants, girl wants to find emotional/mental connection

What Women Want with Mel Gibson.
-he uses women's thoughts
-pretends to be nice guy
-gets what he wants
-in end he is changed for it
-realizes mistakes
-better person for it
-both benefit
i'm dizzy, who're you?

awww... you're dizzy, one of the sweetest people around but almost always judged on what you look like. you're gentle, but you also hide an amazing power behind that innocent expression. sweet.

made by helen_bo_belen
. . .

real life
-does what women want
-pretends to be nice guy
-gets what he wants
-goes away
-girl is hurt

When does it become real and not pretending?
What is it that makes a guy, I dunno, what is it that *clicks*?

I'm not sure how to explain it

other way
-emotional/mental attachment first
-there is a true bond
-guy (or girl) decides they aren't "the one"
-friendship lost
-stil attachment

where is the in-between?
-Making sure there is an emotional attachment
-At same time, not wanting the other person because they are "forbidden fruit"
-rather because they truly care about them?

Maybe I should date some
make lots of friends
date lots of people, other than friends
research human relationships
then look for something serious

Also, cuddling
if it is just someone there to care about you, a place holder
and you about them
how do you differentiate from the one who does matter?

Hence I don't want to date
just using people to have "someone" there
to learn how "caring" works
but not care all out

OK, I've typed enough, I have no clue where I'm going with this, just felt like getting some of my thoughts down for myself.

Then again there is the "just be" rule.


amused by herself

I hope everyone is well


Current Mood: curious, anxious, determined,
Current Music: overwhelmed, underwhelmed (continuing with "mood")

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eyeboogies From: eyeboogies Date: May 19th, 2002 03:21 pm (UTC) (Link)
Mmm...ocassionally it's just the girl that wants down the pants. OFten, even.
From: eternityknight Date: May 20th, 2002 10:47 pm (UTC) (Link)

just the girl?

Shut up, you dirty fucking liar. If I wasn't in Colorado, I would smite you.
eyeboogies From: eyeboogies Date: May 21st, 2002 01:47 am (UTC) (Link)

Re: just the girl?

Haha! YOU! Well, I concede...the male can be convinced to perhaps let the female get down his pants.
From: faustaff Date: May 20th, 2002 07:02 am (UTC) (Link)

ah, people are far too confusing and self involved :)) my cat beats any human relationship hands down :D perfect for a hug and also a good listener :))
personally I don't get very involved with people usually, apart from talking during class in my website course, that's about it, people just get on my nerves too easily :/ mabey I'm too sensitive eh? hehehehe, oh well :))
moowazz From: moowazz Date: May 20th, 2002 07:17 am (UTC) (Link)


kitties are great!

I've got 3 :)~

ya got any pictures of yer kitties?
From: faustaff Date: May 20th, 2002 07:27 am (UTC) (Link)

I do but I haven't got a scanner sorry :/ it doesn't work with this computer for some reason :( well it is something like 5 years old :))) way out of date I'm guessing
my cat, Tiggy, is about 5-6 ish now, he was the runt of his litter I think, he's quite small, always freaks out at oud noises too :)) so I tell him it's ok, pat him and he eventually calms down :)
funny pussy cat :D
From: ex_4st7lb683 Date: May 23rd, 2002 04:00 am (UTC) (Link)

some belated thoughts

random dating is a hopeless waste of time, i think. you just can't make a pair with different intents stay together. it's *only* when two personalities click properly that you get a good relationship.. and that's so rare. 'just be' is the only way to be :)

actually, this says it well (and i'm not a nazi/hitler sympathiser in any way, shape, or form!)

"A meeting between two people who complete one another, who are made for each other, borders already, in my opinion, on a miracle."

-Adolf Hitler (!)
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